Bob Stahley

Bob Stahley transitioned from this world on January 28, 2025, enveloped by the love of his family and friends. He was born on February 21, 1951, in Central Islip, Long Island, New York. Throughout his life, Bob's warm spirit left an indelible mark on all who had the pleasure of knowing him. Upon leaving his position as a systems analyst at the University of Washington Medical Center, he jumped into retirement with both feet and enjoyed the last eight years of his life.

A man with a caring heart, Bob possessed a unique blend of kindness and whimsy. His loving and accepting nature extended to everyone around him, always championing fairness, social justice and displaying a protective instinct for his family. Bob was not merely a husband to Davney but a cherished companion, crafting a relationship rich with love and laughter. Together, they created countless memories, spending tranquil evenings listening to music or delving into books, their shared glances perpetuating an intimacy that ignited joy in the simplest moments.

Bob's humor was a constant source of delight, as he made those around him laugh every day with his quick wit and charming silliness. His smile and twinkling blue eyes could brighten any room, a reflection of the calm and acceptance that characterized his personality. From spirited discussions about current events to a deep commitment to social justice, Bob's astute views and passionate beliefs shaped not only his life but those of his community.

His creative spirit found expression on the stage, where he performed in many theater productions in both Milwaukee and Seattle. Bob particularly excelled in roles that allowed him to shine, captivating audiences as he brought characters to life—most notably in performances of "The Laramie Project" and as the lead in "The Wizard of Oz." His talent was not just a personal triumph but a gift shared with all who had the privilege to witness his artistry.

Quiet adventures were woven throughout Bob's life. He delighted in traveling to Ireland twice which was especially significant. On one memorable trip, he embraced his heritage, culminating in the touching moment he kissed the ground in Omagh, Republic of Ireland the home of his McNulty ancestors. He explored the stunning landscapes of the Pacific Northwest, reveling in its magnificent mountains, churning rivers and exciting cities.  His recreational pursuits included a lifelong love of music, especially The Beatles; Bob was known to closely scrutinize every note and outtake. excited to share them with others. He often attended Beatles Conventions, sharing his passion with fellow enthusiasts.

In recent years, Bob's obsession with Doctor Who became a defining aspect of his life, as he dedicated his retirement to immersing himself in the series' expansive universe. With each episode, he traversed the galaxy anew, seeing each season (50 years' worth) twice since this retirement. He was in the midst of embracing the fantastical adventures of the Doctor for a third time upon his passing. Unfortuately for all who loved him, he never regenerated. Finally, never one to shy away from new experiences, Bob adopted the Liverpool-based Everton Toffees, an English Premier League football team, watching and celebrating (or commissorating) with fellow Toffees at televised matches.

While we mourn the loss of this remarkable man, we cherish the memories of laughter, adventure, and love that Bob leaves behind. He is survived by his devoted wife, Davney Stahley; Jessica Elsheimer; Alex Lawrence; Ryan Weber; Aaron Weber; Becky Weber; Cindy Gillo; and Buddy Stahley. He joins the embrace of those who have gone before him: Richie and Phyllis Stahley, Kathleen Stahley Cardlin, Lillian Stahley, and Jack Stahley.

A Celebration of Life will take place on February 2, 2025, at the First Congregational UCC in South Milwaukee, Wisconsin, where we will gather to honor the legacy of a man who lived fully, fiercely, and with a heart wide open. Memorials may be made to South Milwaukee UCC (SMUCC) or the ACLU of Wisconsin.